How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 04:00
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Is 1500 calories enough for a 5’3 15-year-old who is non-active?
Do not set goals—set systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Is there a possibility that we are living in a simulation and that there is a concept of rebirth?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do you think the constitution and laws should be taught in school?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Does not procrastinate.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What symptoms did you notice before being diagnosed with cancer?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How does someone start doing urban exploration?
That's it for today.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Why did the UK Supreme Court rule that transgender women are not women?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What I need from you?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).